Most of us learned how to do closeness somewhere, and whatever we learned tends to show up again under stress. Old patterns surface with partners, family, friends and at work.
We look at the dynamic rather than assigning fault. What happens when you need something. What happens when conflict starts. What you do when you are hurt and how that lands with the people around you.
This work is available individually, and it often helps even when the other person is not in the room.